We learn when we fail, therefore it is good to fail. Don’t mistake this comment for permission to avoid hard work, failing is hard work when done correctly.
Your Comfort Zone
If you want to live a comfortable life with no real challenges on your horizon then avoid growth. It is far easier to take the easy road, stay in your comfort zone. Make it easy to avoid making mistakes that might show you new ways to complete a task or at the very minimum force you to rethink what you are doing. The ugly truth is sometimes hard to accept, no one likes to fail. The word failure has been associated with so much negativity it is hard to find anything positive. I cannot say I have at times avoided failure as if it were the plague. The problem is by avoiding failure I was only promoting my own stagnation. I was not growing.
Impressing Your Peers
At a certain point you have to give way to being comfortable. You have to put the notion of being comfortable away, some place you will forget about it and then focus on the fall. You can make failure in a controlled setting a very good thing. I really didn’t appreciate this notation until well into my middle ages. It was something I pushed back from for the simple reason I didn’t want to look bad in front of my peers, my teammates those who’s opinion I sought. I did okay, in fact I did pretty damn good. In my early years I really didn’t care about what other people thought. I was too busy kicking ass to care. At some point that changed and everything slowed down. I might have been on a plateau for a long time, but the good news was it was a high plateau. I had a great view.
Skating Through Life
One day I found myself working with some very talented people. I realized I was just as good, but they were putting in hard work and I was pretty much gliding. I started to wonder what might happen if I opened up a bit. I’ll admit I was comfortable and enjoyed the status quo. I realized eventually how sad it was to be satisfied with this state. After that, I started to rethink my entire thought process. It lead me back to my early days where I didn’t care as much I wanted to see where my failure points lie. There is much to be said about know what you can do, but you might consider it equally valuable in knowing what you cannot do…at this moment.
Full Speed Ahead
I do so much work at slow speed that hitting the gas felt weird. I had to bust down some of my own barriers I had in place and instead be okay if I put up a poor performance as long as I went all out. As long as I was safe. As long as I learned something. Most of the professional development I do these days are focused on speed. I should say about doing something faster than I did before. That is were metrics become so important so I can document the performance in an attempt to improve the next time I encounter a drill. I love this thought process. I love how it pushes me to try to do better. It doesn’t matter by how much, just get better no matter how small. Taking this mindset and applying it to a big picture is where you see the true value. Where consistency really pays off, to consistently make an infantile improvement.
Don’t look away when failure stares at you. Instead, thank failure for show you the way.